Daily Archives: November 28, 2011

When a child dies…

When a child dies…

What do you say to the parents?

Do you say..”I’m so sorry for your loss”? Do you say..”I know how you must feel”? Do you say…”I can’t imagine how you are dealing with this”?…Is there anything you can say that can really help them? Can you REALLY imagine their pain?

I have been crying all day for this little boy, Drake Holder, the son of a past friend of mine. A boy I have never met. But still, I cry. I thank God my two boys are still breathing, still living, still here for me to hug and watch grow up.

This is what I did say.

God must have really loved you to have shared his angel with you these past years.

God must have really needed Drake to come home for something really special. God must have had something special, really special, only Drake could do. Be ok. Be ok…because he is in God’s hands.

He is home.

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It is here AGAIN

Its the time for thoughts again…

Thanksgiving. Christmas. New Years.                                                                                                                        This time of year can bring Appreciation. Praise. Resolution. Sadness. Frustration…

                            For some the season is a well spring of new beginnings, new hope, new dreams.

                            For some the season brings frustration. Am I going anywhere? What is all this for?                            For some the season brings pressure, the feeling the whole world depends on their strength.

                            For some, the season brings the overwhelming feeling of being invisible.

For whichever scenario best fits your inner thoughts, my wish for you is to find that wonderful place of self sufficiency, self love, self strength, self determination.

Happiness does not depend on others.It depends on you. Find a dream. Find a hope. Find resolve.

Find the power to enjoy this season of magic.

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